Whether we have sex before marriage or don't, cover our bodies or don't, women are not so different at heart, as you say. We all want to be loved, and to love in return, in whatever way that is expressed in our language and culture and lives. We all want health and safety for our children, if we have them. We are different, too, in our ambitions and talents. But surely we all deserve kindness and respect. Thank you for getting me thinking about these things!