When I was a high school teacher I had a teenage male student tell me that he'd love to be followed home by a woman. He didn't understand the problem with complimenting women for their looks on the street. He wished the roles were reversed.
I told him to imagine someone bigger and stronger than him instead. How would he like being told he was cute by a big, buff man on a deserted street? IDK if he got it then. He was already on the red pill road. But I tried . . .
Another test I like (which I wrote a story about) is to imagine the stranger walking down the street is Dwayne ("The Rock") Johnson. If you wouldn't whistle or catcall or do whatever to Dwayne, don't do it to anyone. https://medium.com/fourth-wave/the-dwayne-the-rock-johnson-test-df796e426251