This was a good read. It's tough being a woman! It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and will figure it out. I always knew I wanted babies and didn't have a big career, so it was easy to stay home with them for 7 years. My daughter has a big career and her first child is in daycare now at 5 months. We all have to find our own way. I'm glad women have choices, even if they are hard.