This is such an important problem to figure out. Women want equal opportunity in the workplace, but they need to be given support to achieve it if they also want to have children at home. I remember reading that when a school secretary called Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg (when she was a mere lawyer) because her child was sick, she asked why they were calling her and told them to call her husband, the father, instead. We need equal responsibility at home just as much as we need equal opportunity at work.