Thanks so much for that background, Jim. I'm intrigued that you don't have to worry about sexual jealousy in an open relationship, since that's precisely what I fear about one!

I get the "done thing" aspect. I assume that's why we're monogamous in our hetero relationship. That's just how it's done in my world. And it's hard for me to picture it working any other way. But clearly, it does. I'd love to hear more about why you think that is when you work it through.

Always a pleasure to talk to (and read) you. :) And thanks, Elle, for inviting Jim to the conversation! :)