Okay. Will do. Intrigued by the new (to me) words telogeny and microchimerism. Monogamy is fine with me, as long as both agree to it, and violence isn’t used to enforce it. But “possessiveness” has a much more sinister ring, as does “mate-guarding.” I’m guessing that if you were a woman you wouldn’t consent to that. And while I’m glad to hear that you love all the people you have sex with, that hasn’t been my experience.