Oh, wow. I really feel for the woman you follow on TikTok. It's wrong that they can't put people like her son in an asylum because we've closed them all in the U.S. Now the only choices left for people like him is to be homeless on the streets, or in jail. It's dangerous for us all and inhumane for that young man. And yes, everyone always blames the mother. That's the whole reason the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill (NAMI) was created. Because a mom was fed up when she was told her son's illness was her fault. Back in the day, if someone had schizophrenia, there were only two reasons. The mother was too close, or the mother was too distant. It was ALWAYS considered the mother's fault. Thank you for your good wishes. He just got through a terrible ordeal which I wrote about in another story in which a woman falsely accused him of sexual assault. They finally dropped the charges two days ago, but he was destabilized in the long, scary process of going to hearing after hearing after hearing under threat. I'm just hoping with a little passage of time he will calm down again...