"Keep sweet, pray and obey" is what women were taught in Warren Jeffs' fundamentalist Mormon cult, where they were being married off to old men to be raped as children, denied an education or any path to independence, and kept in subservient roles. No thanks. I'd rather be salty. Here's a trailer for the Netflix documentary about the cult: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UbhNxmwh_qc