I'm very skeptical of "romantic love." We're fed an ideal that no one can achieve. I've never met a perfect couple as they are depicted on TV. My personal feeling is love is more of a project or spiritual quest that I undertake than an external event that happens to me as if by magic. I like reading your thoughts which are out of the box, but II do think when raising children that frameworks are needed. Two parents are better than one. But perhaps they don't have to be exclusionary? More relatives or friends could be drawn into the circle. And the government should most definitely step in to make childrearing a blessing rather than a burden in terms of finance and opportunity for the caregivers. I like reading what you're thinking and look forward to what's coming next.