I think we're having a failure to communicate, SC. Like I said in the last comment, live how you like. As long as you aren't hurting others, I don't want to interfere with you. Think of it as being offered a cookie at a party. You can have one or not, your choice. I'm suggesting the world would be better if we focused on human decency rather than gender roles. Take or leave my suggestion. Just don't crap on other people. I don't think that's too much to ask.