I guess you can include me because I've never heard of xe/xem! Now I have learned something new. Or at least learned that I need to look up something new in order to learn it... :p Thanks for your input. I've been watching Reservation Dogs and there's a sweet character, Cheese, who tells everyone his pronouns just as a way to be polite to his LGBTQ friends--or the memory of one who died. It's kind of a running joke because no one on the reservation asked or wants to know his pronouns but he tells them anyway, and he's just a regular cis/het guy, as far as I can tell. He's one of my favorite characters on the quirky show... Sometimes I'm annoyed by pronouns but his attitude is helping to inform mine. Let's just be kind to each other. Is that too much to ask? I don't think so...