I followed the link to Walkaway Wife Syndrome and was surprised women aren't leaving for the reasons you state, and I would assume. It's not that men aren't doing their share, but that they aren't paying enough attention to their wives! I never would have guessed that. I personally could do with less attention--hahahah! I also previously thought that marriage benefits men more than women--it seems obvious--but when I tried to hunt down some studies to support that they were hard to find. I notice you don't link any. I wonder how accurate these assumptions are? It's true that marriage rates are going down, but that may be fueled by men as well as women. We don't know...