I also didn't realize I was date raped until the #MeToo Movement. There wasn't even a word for it in my youth. It was always the woman's fault, regardless. "Why were you kissing him in the back of his camper if you didn't want to get raped?" Thank god for human evolution. We've still got a long way to go, but are seeing more clearly now... Thank you for writing this fantastic piece. You are brave and strong and a good writer and a beacon for us all.