Good luck! I hope you made the right call. It's reassuring that you are aware of the possibilities and keeping watch. The rate of domestic violence (20 people a minute) and even femicide (3 a day) in the U.S.) by women's "lovers" is off the hook. If he is violent towards anything or anyone at all--run. https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/domestic-violence-by-state

See also: https://medium.com/fourth-wave/three-women-a-day-8e0a31d5eab5