Attachment theory is SO interesting. The first story I read about it completely blew me away. I shared it with a friend who said it saved her marriage. (But later, they still got divorced...) I am proud of myself that I managed to store it in a place I could find it again. Hahahah! I wonder if you've seen this one? One thing I can say for sure. Having disorganized attachment hasn't affected the high quality of your writing!!! :) https://aeon.co/essays/how-emotionally-focused-couple-therapy-can-help-love-last